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happy mothers day


Yesterday was Mother's Day and I am incredibly thankful for each and every one of my children. This is a role I truly cherish. Being a mother is exciting, fun, tiring, fulfilling, challenging.....the list goes on and on. Motherhood is an amazing journey.

But, I can never get thru Mother's Day without looking at Lily and thinking about her birth mother. Somewhere, across the ocean is a woman who will never have the opportunity to know this child, yet she was the one who gave her life. I'm not sure if they celebrate Mother's Day in China. But, if they do, I'm sure this woman thought of the baby she left at the orphanage gate 3 years ago. She was not able to keep her baby, but she loved her enough to carry her preganancy to term and give her life. She loved her enough to make sure she had a future. I wish I could tell her thank you. I wish I could tell her that Lily is healthy, beautiful, sweet, kind, has a great sense of humor and an infectious zeal for life. I am forever indebted to this woman. She will always hold part of my heart and every time I hold Lily in my arms, I will be holding part of her heart, too.
Posted on Monday, May 15 by Registered Commenterthe everyday mom | Comments4 Comments

Reader Comments (4)

very touching. the perspective towards Lily's birth-mother, and her sacrifice is so sweet and refreshing. I hope she somehow knows in her heart that Lily is incredibly happy and a blessed little girl.

I am so glad you decided to be Lily's mommy, you are a monstrously huge reason, she will become who she is called to be. She is a delight.
Monday, May 15 | Unregistered Commentershannon
I had similar thoughts about Jordan's birth mother yesterday. Its a strange paradox to feel such overwhelming gratitude towards someone and at the same time, mourn for their loss.
Kelly
Monday, May 15 | Unregistered CommenterAnonymous
To One I Do Not Know

I�ve never seen the gentle hands
That surely touched her face.
I�ve never seen the tender smile
To her you painfully gave.

I�ve never heard the precious song
To her that once was sung;
Or seen the tears forever shed
When good-byes were said and done.

But to you I am so grateful.
Far more than eyes can see;
You�ve brigtened so this weary world
In bringing her to be.
Monday, May 15 | Unregistered CommenterAnonymous
Okay, that reduced me to tears. Your ability to put emotions into words amazes me. Lily is abundantly blessed.
Monday, May 15 | Unregistered CommenterBeth

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